*eating meals together. I now cook meals that he microwaves when he gets home from work
*walking around the mall together. I now know it was all an act. He hates the mall and hasn't been there since the day before we were married

*watch TV together. The TV still gets turned on, but we are both on our laptops.
*talk. I now email him when I remember what I needed to tell him when we were in the same room
*clean the house. Now we just don't clean because the brats mess it up in .2 seconds.
*go on dates. Now we stay home because we cant afford to see a movie.
*listen to the same music. After we were married, he informed me that he loves bluegrass music. We have been fighting about it ever since

*we never discussed or openly displayed bodily functions. Farting is now a part of our family
*spend every available moment with each other. Now I cant wait to get out of the house away from every living creature so I can just be by myself.
...and he has horses that I am convinced he loves more than me.
11 years later.
It seems to be working.


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